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Psychology / Psychotherapy / Counselling / Therapist

Tips for Choosing the Right Therapist

The therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone of effective psychotherapy. It is therefore crucial for you, the client, to understand its significance. This unique bond between you and your therapist is what can create a safe and supportive space for you to explore and heal.


This requires trust and a sense of safety -- where you can feel free to share your thoughts, emotions and experiences in what you know is a judgement-free space.


This alliance provides an opportunity to address issues you are struggling with right now, and insight and coping strategies for issues in your future.


The therapeutic relationship isn't just a backdrop but an active catalyst for your journey towards improved mental well-being and self-discovery.


Here is a list of things to consider when you are choosing a Psychotherapist:

  1. Appropriate Credentials:

    • Ensure they are registered to practice psychotherapy. For example, both a Registered Psychotherapist and Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) are licensed to practice the controlled act of psychotherapy in Ontario. 

    • Verify their educational background (masters degree) and training in a recognized therapy modality (e.g., IFS, EFT, DBT, EMDR, psychoanalysis, etc.).

  2. Specialization:

    • Seek a therapist with expertise in the specific area you need help with (e.g., anxiety, depression, trauma, couples therapy, grief & loss etc.).

  3. Compassion:

    • A good therapist should be compassionate, understanding, and non-judgmental, creating a safe and supportive environment for your work together.

  4. Effective Communication:

    • Look for a therapist who can communicate clearly and actively listen to your concerns.

  5. Trustworthiness:

    • Trust is crucial in the therapeutic relationship. Ensure you feel comfortable and trust your therapist's intentions and abilities.

  6. Experience:

    • Consider the therapist's training, experience and own life experience so they can provide a deeper understanding of various issues and approaches. 

  7. Cultural Competence:

    • If your background or identity plays a significant role in your concerns, find a therapist who is culturally competent and sensitive to diversity.

  8. Evidence-Based Practices:

    • Choose a therapist who incorporates evidence-based therapeutic techniques and stays updated on the latest research.

  9. Ethical Conduct:

    • Ensure the therapist follows a strict code of ethics, including confidentiality and professional boundaries.

  10. Flexibility:

    • A good therapist should be adaptable and open to adjusting their approach to meet your individual needs and goals.

  11. Availability and Accessibility:

    • Consider their office location, hours of availability, and whether they offer in-person and virtual options if needed.

  12. Insurance:

    • Verify your coverage with your insurer to confirm that they pay for a Registered Psychotherapist/Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying).

  13. Treatment Plan:

    • The therapist should co-create a treatment approach with you that speaks to your goals. 

  14. Compatibility:

    • Ultimately, trust your instincts and choose a therapist with whom you feel a genuine connection and a sense of collaboration (this is arguably the most important item on the list).

  15. Continuous Professional Development:

    • A good therapist should be committed to their own ongoing professional development and pursue continued training in new methods, and seek supervision or consultation when needed.

  16. Confidentiality:

    • Ensure the therapist emphasizes the importance of maintaining confidentiality, except in situations where there's a risk to your safety or others'.

  17. Assessment and Feedback:

    • A skilled therapist should regularly assess your progress and adjust the treatment plan accordingly. They should also be open to receiving feedback from you.


Remember that finding the right therapist may take some time and effort, but it's essential to achieving your therapeutic goals.

At Making Space Psychotherapy we emphasize strong therapeutic relationships, and this starts with making good matches between the therapist and the client. We expect that not every match will be perfect though, and occasionally we may need to make a second suggestion or refer you outside of the clinic with suggestions. We welcome your feedback on this if you feel comfortable to bring it forward.


If you ever feel like the therapist you are working with is not feeling like a good fit (on session one or fifty-one...any time in other words) you are welcome to tell the therapist OR our office team OR Jenni Shea, the owner can work with you to find a suitable referral - it may be a referral to another practice if that is the best option for you. Remember that this is your journey!

Psychotherapist near me? Yes! We have locations in Hamilton and Burlington.

There is ample free parking around the buildings at both locations, and we are steps from transit.

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